{"id":807,"date":"2022-12-16T07:59:07","date_gmt":"2022-12-16T12:59:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ejameswhite.com\/?p=807"},"modified":"2022-12-16T11:26:23","modified_gmt":"2022-12-16T16:26:23","slug":"oh-grief-time-for-random-ramblings-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ejameswhite.com\/?p=807","title":{"rendered":"Oh Grief&#8230;time for random ramblings again"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>If you read my other &#8220;random ramblings&#8221;, you know they are the thoughts as they come and I type them. Might be boring, might be interesting, but they are my current thoughts.\u00a0 I have a lot actually&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s the last month of 2022, how has the year been for you?\u00a0 It&#8217;s been a good year for me production-wise, but this week, I lost a very close friend to Type 1 Diabetes.\u00a0 My friend, Kevin is the one on the home page of this blog, standing next to me at Chicago Marathon.\u00a0 Our families have vacationed together.\u00a0 I don&#8217;t have a lot of close friends.\u00a0 I have a lot of acquaintances that I&#8217;m not close to.\u00a0 \u00a0But far few close friends.\u00a0 So this is pretty devastating.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I also lost my grandmother back in October this year. She was 94.\u00a0 It hasn&#8217;t been a great year in this way, with the loss of special people.\u00a0 We never know when our time is up.\u00a0 Mine could be tomorrow.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a good thing that none of us know when we will die, usually.\u00a0 Can you imagine how much anxiety you would have as that dreadful day would draw near?<\/p>\n<p>In December, I like to listen to &#8220;Long December&#8221; by the Counting Crows.\u00a0 I listen to it often in December but not in the other months of the year.\u00a0 Isn&#8217;t that kind of weird?\u00a0 Oh, I will probably write an end of year summary for 2022.\u00a0 I have some goals for next year &#8211; reading (or listening) to more books and maybe reviewing some of them.\u00a0 \u00a0I think my running injuries are behind me finally.\u00a0 I will talk about that in another blog.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I have been listening to podcasts, as usual.\u00a0 Some of the ones I listen to are Tim Ferriss, This Week In Startups, Guy Kawasaki, and Joe Rogan.\u00a0 \u00a0Recently I have been listening to a lot of Lex Fridman podcasts.\u00a0 He is a good interviewer and an interesting person.\u00a0 Maybe a bit monotone in talking, but so am I.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>About this time last year, I had a good friend become very sick from Covid, to the point of hospitalization.\u00a0 He was fighting it for a quite a while, but he did pull though thankfully.\u00a0 \u00a0Another friend named Kevin.\u00a0 We were roommates in college, and I am glad he&#8217;s still with us.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>My house is illuminated only by Christmas lights right now, and it is 12:34AM.\u00a0 It&#8217;s peaceful.\u00a0 I am starting to feel tired.\u00a0 This month has been nice because I will have a lot of days at home, away from my job.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a refreshing break.\u00a0 Among the projects I have that are not related to coding or startups is finishing my basement.\u00a0 \u00a0I just work on it occasionally but this month I am really trying to push it forward.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I am reading the Walter Isaacson book on Benjamin Franklin currently.\u00a0 Not too far in, but it&#8217;s interesting so far.\u00a0 I also read the Steve Jobs book. Walter does a great job of telling the story of someone&#8217;s life.\u00a0 I have a list of 30-40 books recommended to me or ones I wanted to read. I doubt I will get though all of them next year, but I will try as many as possible.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t like to talk about my personal life too much here, but I share what I am comfortable with.\u00a0 Music is playing right now.\u00a0 It is Led Zeppelin &#8220;Going to California.&#8221;\u00a0 Not too long ago, &#8220;Long December&#8221; was on.\u00a0 So I thought Brazil could win the entire World Cup, but they got knocked out.\u00a0 It will be Argentina and France in final game.\u00a0 Since I am from Baltimore but also grew up near Philadelphia, I am a fan of teams from both cities, but I lean more towards Baltimore teams.<\/p>\n<p>Well, the music is off, and I am getting tired. I aim for bed by 1AM and up by 7:30AM if it&#8217;s a day off from work.\u00a0 I have many things to do tomorrow but nothing is pressing. That means I need to stay focused on whatever I work on.\u00a0 My main thought now is just about sleep, so I am ending this random thoughts blog.\u00a0 Hope it wasn&#8217;t too boring!<\/p>\n<p>-EJW\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you read my other &#8220;random ramblings&#8221;, you know they are the thoughts as they come and I type them. Might be boring, might be interesting, but they are my current thoughts.\u00a0 I have a lot actually&#8230;. It&#8217;s the last month of 2022, how has the year been for you?\u00a0 It&#8217;s been a good year for me production-wise, but this week, I lost a very close friend to Type 1<\/p>\n<div class=\"belowpost\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ejameswhite.com\/?p=807\">Read More<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[84],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-807","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4FxFG-d1","post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ejameswhite.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/807","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ejameswhite.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ejameswhite.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ejameswhite.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ejameswhite.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=807"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.ejameswhite.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/807\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":811,"href":"https:\/\/www.ejameswhite.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/807\/revisions\/811"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ejameswhite.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=807"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ejameswhite.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=807"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ejameswhite.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=807"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}